I think I can I added a ram stick and the majority of the time it ran fine was without that. I am sorry I didn't communicate that clearly. The problem is the new ram stick is not rated to be run at 1.35 volt while the other two are. I think at lower load the setup was fine but as I was adding more functionality it I got more problems.If your RAM voltage was in question, run MemTest86 and tweak the voltage if you need to in order to find a stable system.
This is what has me concerned. It was working fine and suddenly it is not. Can you relate this to anything you have done? Also, did you do a proper burn-in of the system just to ensure everything is really working as it should? I highly recommend the MemTest86 or MemTest86+, your poison to choose.
I know it is not a proper stress test but I just had the system cpu transcoding over night using tdarr and it ran without crashed