What's the numbers for SSD SLOG vs asynchronous RAM writes?
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What's the block size if your workload?
Is it a sync or async write?
How busy is the zpool?
How busy is the SSD?
What's the performance characteristics of the SSD?
Is the SSD busy doing TRIM/GC?
Is the SSD good at handling small writes?
How much RAM do you have?
Have you tuned one of the 1000s of tunables in ZFS (a whole host of them affect the outcome)?
What build of FreeNAS are you running?
Every one of those questions affects the outcome of "SSD SLOG vs async RAM writes".