cannot use time machine on ventura, works on catalina

[jrsneto]

I configured TrueNas to be a time machine target, it works just fine on my son's 10.15 catalina macbook but not on my 13.3 ventura macbook.
When I try to connect to it, after inputing my user and password the login window dissapers and reapers with no error message.

I created a time machine dataset and 2 sub-datasets for each user, same permissions for their respective users, but works on his macbook and not mine.

Here's a video of what happens on my mac.

Here's my config

on the mac I got this log from the console app

Code:

erro    09:08:27.402681-0300    TimeMachineSettings    Warning: -[NSWindow makeKeyWindow] called on _TtC7SwiftUIP33_00AAB847C3060B4FF7A299E87C10010C23SheetPresentationWindow 0x15565b090 which returned NO from -[NSWindow canBecomeKeyWindow].
padrão    09:08:27.407581-0300    TimeMachineSettings    order window: ab7 op: 1 relative: ab7 related: 0
padrão    09:08:29.701842-0300    authd    Succeeded authorizing right 'system.preferences' by client '/System/Library/PrivateFrameworks/SystemAdministration.framework/XPCServices/writeconfig.xpc' [29175] for authorization created by '/System/Library/ExtensionKit/Extensions/TimeMachineSettings.appex' [29170] (2,0) (engine 2957)
erro    09:08:29.726603-0300    TimeMachineSettings    Warning: -[NSWindow makeKeyWindow] called on _TtC7SwiftUIP33_00AAB847C3060B4FF7A299E87C10010C23SheetPresentationWindow 0x15692a3f0 which returned NO from -[NSWindow canBecomeKeyWindow].
padrão    09:08:29.727385-0300    TimeMachineSettings    order window: aba op: 1 relative: aba related: 0
padrão    09:08:29.727866-0300    NetAuthSysAgent    Proxy Open Session: request 5DB891B9-FA2E-4430-9FE0-59ED54265586 from TimeMachineSettings (29170)
erro    09:08:29.728837-0300    TimeMachineSettings    CGSWindowShmemCreateWithPort failed on port 0
erro    09:08:29.753940-0300    backupd    com.apple.backupd.sandbox.xpc: connection invalid
padrão    09:08:51.941576-0300    NetAuthSysAgent    Proxy Mount Share: request 5DB891B9-FA2E-4430-9FE0-59ED54265586 from TimeMachineSettings (29170)
erro    09:08:52.101774-0300    TimeMachineSettings    Failed to connect to 'smb://freenas._smb._tcp.local./Time%20Machine', error: Error Domain=com.apple.TimeMachine.SettingsExtension Code=5 "(null)" UserInfo={NSUnderlyingError=0x600001a90810 {Error Domain=NSOSStatusErrorDomain Code=-1073741275 "(null)"}}
padrão    09:08:52.101917-0300    NetAuthSysAgent    Proxy Close Session: request 5DB891B9-FA2E-4430-9FE0-59ED54265586 from TimeMachineSettings (29170)
padrão    09:08:52.102328-0300    NetAuthSysAgent    Proxy Open Session: request 5F009094-DAD0-48AF-9344-4E64B0A9A30F from TimeMachineSettings (29170)
erro    09:08:52.176260-0300    TimeMachineSettings    Failed to create volume info from disk '<TMDisk: 0x16200f000> '/System/Volumes/Data/home'', error: missingURLForRemounting