garyi,
As you can see, this forum tends to be snippy, snarly, and snotty more than helpful. And it appears not to be moderated at all. So good fucking luck to you.
You are 100% right, and as a moderator I apologize, I'm guilty of some of that myself. I'm as frustrated and unhappy about that as you for a number of reasons:
Users that don't follow the rules so often that its ridiculous to try and manage
No coordination or solidarity among moderators or ADMINS
People don't search and repost the same questions so often that the good answers get buried and make it more difficult to find the answers.
ADMINS that don't want to participate, but don't want to hand over the keys to other admins to fix stuff.
ADMINS that are too busy to help the moderators that are trying to help them.
You know the saying about shit flowing downhill....
It gets old trying to be helpful when you don't get any appreciation, assistance, or cooperation.
Sorry guys.