With parity RAID, all disks get the write, but only 1/(n-z) of the overall amount of data written. You'll observe that drives are rated based on data written... not the number of writes. So, if you're writing 6GB of data to a RAID-Z, each drive only sees 1/(6-2)=1.25GB of data written.
SSDs also typically fail in a predictable way, from a media wearout perspective. They exhibit a slowly increasing relocation count as the weakest cells wear out. The good controllers typically render the drive read-only when the wear reaches a certain level.
Let's assume a 6-drive RAIDZ2 array of 800GB S3700s. Each drive is rated to 10 DWPD, or 8TB/day. You would be able to completely fill the array 10 times in a day for 5 years without going outside the rated drive expectancy... and there's no guarantee that the drive will up and die as soon as one byte over that limit is written. In certain big data workloads, perhaps that might be a limiting factor... but it's unlikely that's your use case.
Finally, RAID isn't backup. If you're trying to build massive redundancy in and don't have an offline, offsite backup, you're doing it wrong.