I did buy the backplane with the larger fans. I then bought
3 of these(I think this is the right size.. verify before you buy). I like those because they don't have bearings in the traditional sense so should last far longer than other fans. They're pretty quiet, they don't have the same CFM as other fans, but I bought them because they are sufficient and won't fail on me. Been using those fans for almost 3 years and had no failures out of 37!
I also replaced the case fans with 2 of those type.
Edit: Hot spares aren't "hot" on FreeNAS yet. I don't recommend them yet because they aren't hot. If I really feel the need to keep a spare I either go 1 disk wider and go with RAIDZ3, then you have a hot spare that is ALSO redundant, or I keep them on a shelf where nobody will touch them.