Unfortunately, there isn't a foolproof way to ensure ECC is working, short of bombarding the RAM with a high-energy beam of some sort.
I also bought an i7 950 ($45) for the mainboard in question.
The i7 920 that was in it, did not support extended VT-x.
https://bugs.freenas.org/issues/17473
I'll just buy a mainboard for the Xeon anyway, with ECC support (Intel WX58BP?)

And then I have to buy a mainboard for the now spare i7 920 that i have.
Down the hardware buying rabbit hole I go, ...again
It's expensive :-(
The feature of ECC that I want to take advantage of is that (if I have understood it correctly) it erases itself on poweron. Deleting any keys stored in RAM susceptible to a cold boot attack.
Well, back to my plan of putting a microwave oven emitter in the case
Could it be done with a CRT? I'll have to research some more.
I got some of my inspiration from this video (53min):
DEF CON 23 - Zoz - And That's How I Lost My Other Eye...Explorations in Data Destruction:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-bpX8YvNg6Y
PS. If you are a chemical reaction literate (ie. 2H2+O2 --> 2H2O). This video will teach you how to make very reactive chemicals.
Hope I'm not breaking the rules for posting this.
If so, please delete the link (maybe leave the title?).
Have a great weekend everyone. It's 2PM in Norway now.
Sorry for being so chatty. But I have too much free time¿