Alright so I reset the router to defaults and the nas configuration it's still not working, tried to connect on 4 different computers.
A theory, I'm using a amd 3200g cpu which has 20 pcie lanes but 16 of them are in use for the onboard graphics leaving only 4 pcie lanes, however perhaps the 10GB PCI-E Intel network card x520 requires 8 pcie lanes to function rendering it useless. Which might be why I couldn't get the other mobo and cpu to work properly.
PC Specs:
MOBO: ASUS ROG Strix B450-F Gaming II
CPU: AMD Ryzen 3200g
RAM: OLOy DDR4 RAM 16GB (2x8GB) 3000 MHz
Power Supply: EVGA 500 BA, 80+ BRONZE 500W
Hard Drive: Inland Professional SSD 128GB
Network Card: Intel 10GB PCI-E x520
I plan on raiding several ssds but havn't got to that yet cause I can't even get fricken free nas to work, I'm about to just install windows on this dang thing and share a folder.
Here's some screen shots of what I'm doing in the console (I can't get to the global configuration in the gui because I can't connect to my nas) and the router default configuration screenshot.