In Xen Hosts I have intel x520-DA2.
In FreeNAS I have AOC-STG-i4S 4-port10Gbe Standard LP with SFP+, Intel XL710-AM1
The switch is Arista 7048T-A with 4 Ports SFP+ 10GB.
I can't speak to that switch in particular but some other users have had issues getting full-speed switching between ports intended to be uplinks. It might be an issue with this switch as well.
Datasheet indicates 176Gbps throughput, but that might be under a situation of the traffic going in the 1Gbps and out the 10Gbps or vice versa; potentially an ASIC limitation?