Truth is elsewhere...
Ok folks, I have done some test, and there something strange:
I try with a direct connection between PC and NAS => Same behaviour, switch are not in cause.
Being quite despaired, I try a foolish things: I installed Windows 7 on NAS

!!!
I first installed HDtune and test all 4 disk to see If I haven't a small black duck in my HDD family :p
Result are a quite homogeneous except for one disk which have a better "stability" than the 3 others why ?? I currently have not clue (can post HDDtune screenshot if needed)...
Obviously no Software raid with Windows, so just use a simple share on each drive and see what happens:
- Write : 70 MB/S (get to 90MB on disk with windows can tell why :p)
- Read : 110 MB/S
that's the best I had, but I see something really strange when reading/writing from NAS, for example:
Transfer start at 10MB for ~2 sec and then blackout no more com with nas (even with a direct ping !!!) for about 15s and after that 10s at 40MB/S and next about 110MB

Every next transfer was stuck directly at 110 MB ...
After some more test I see that I have random blackout during transfer, I thing that I will buy a pci-express network card to do some test (are they easily compatible with freenas ??? )